Flab to Fit: Dealing with Negative Thoughts

I just came back from the gym, and although I wouldn’t say it was my greatest workout ever, the fact that I even went up to the gym has to count for something, right? I’ve realised that the less I think about something while I do it, the more motivated I am to finish. In work, life, workouts(!) as soon as I start thinking about what I’m doing, if I’m doing it right, these thoughts start slowing me down and I either give up or just don’t finish what I started.

I suppose these thoughts are ‘negative’ thoughts, although they are not negative in nature, the outcome becomes the opposite of what I’m hoping for. It will go like this:

I’ll start my workout, hop on my cardio machine of choice, and I start feeling good….

But then:

Oh I hate this song (flips thru ipod slowing pace down a bit) okay, good song. Okay, doing good. But I had that cookie today. So what’s the point of even working out. It was a good cookie, but still, I just want another cookie. NO NO Focus!! Focus on working out. What time is it? Another shit song. OMG so thirsty, okay, would it matter if I cut my time down by 5 minutes, I mean, it’s not going to make a difference anyway?

As you can imagine, I don’t come out of these types of workouts satisfied.

Today was a bit different. I worked out for 30 minutes, didn’t play with my ipod, watched some tv while I did it and 30 minutes flew by. I even wanted to go some more but I knew I had tons of other stuff to do that day. Again, not overly satisfied but you know what I did?

I just threw all my negative thoughts out of my head, showered and went on with my day.

xoxo

Fab Brunette

ps. Do you have negative thoughts? We all do – what do yours stop you from doing?

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  • I do this exact thing on the elliptical but I see it as a distraction than a focus… if I don't just do it and try and think other stuff related to the workout I lose my mind. I have stoped staring at the timer… that makes me want to get off sooo quickly.

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  • Lisa:

    My negative thoughts usually keep my from writing. Sitting down and taking the time to do something that I love. I will totally plan to do it, have absolutely nothing keeping me from it…and then…I hear all of these, “What will you even write about? What's the point? It won't even be good, plus you've had such a long day already. You already worked out and cooked dinner…don't you want to just relax and watch tv? Huh? Don't you want to just lay here, think a lot, maybe drift to sleep? You can always write tomorrow…yes, you'll write tomorrow. OHH you can't start in the middle of the week, that's weird. Just wait till Monday, it's the first day of the week and that will be better. Yes. Wait till then.” Etccccccc. I am learning to shut the voice OUT. :)

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  • We definitely all have negative thoughts, but to be honest, I wouldn't say that mine stop me from doing anything: if I'm feeling blah about something, I usually just try and push myself through it anyway!

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  • Katy:

    When I have negative thoughts, I literally tell myself in my head to “shut the fuck up.” If I feel myself slacking off at the gym, especially when doing cardio or circuits, I tell myself to “stop being so fucking lazy and push yourself” over and over again. It sounds simple and mean but it works. =P

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  • Your timing could not have been better in posting this! My boyfriend and I just signed up for gym memberships yesterday and once he gets home from work, this'll be my first time going to a gym in a year.

    I'm the exact same way as you! I always pick at songs, think I'm not doing enough, get bored, blah blah blah. I'm definitely going to try to just shut up all the negativity today! Thanks!

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  • Tosh99_2000:

    I love the remodel of your blog.

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  • Metropolitan Mum:

    Darling, I love your new layout. And if I'd look like you in that picture above, I wouldn't worry the least bit ;)
    Go girl, go! x MM

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  • AMAZINGGGGGGG JOBBBBB!:) negative thoughts usually come to me too, I think I just need a little more self control.

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